This year marks a remarkable milestone in my life – a golden jubilee of friendship with two incredible individuals, Si Chay Beng, 71, and Kam Teik Beng, 73.
Fifty years have passed since we first met, yet our bond remains as steadfast as ever, a testament to the beauty and strength of enduring friendships.
Our journey together began in 1974 when life’s crossroads brought us to Section 17 in Petaling Jaya, Selangor, from our humble kampung roots. Those early days were filled with shared dreams, hearty laughter, and an unyielding determination to succeed. We bonded over simple meals, light-hearted banter, and the occasional haircut session, forging a friendship that would withstand the test of time.
Despite life leading us down different paths – Si to accountancy in the United Kingdom, Kam to a fulfilling civil service career, and me to postgraduate studies in the United States, we made it a point to stay connected.
Over the decades, we’ve celebrated milestones, supported each other through challenges, and shared countless moments of joy, from family gatherings to our regular lunches.
To this day, we meet monthly, taking turns to play host. Our recent lunch, just like the ones we’ve shared for 50 years, was filled with laughter, camaraderie, and cherished memories. I’m proud to keep the priceless pictures of our past get-togethers and lunches and the articles I’ve written about our friendship.
Even though we don’t always see eye to eye on everything, especially political matters, we gracefully embrace our differences and focus on what unites us. These enduring friendships with Si and Kam have been a constant source of joy and support throughout my life. They are a testament to the lasting bonds that seniors can form and maintain.
Whether it’s a spirited debate, shared stories, or simply being in each other’s company, these moments are irreplaceable treasures.
For all seniors out there, my story isn’t just about my friends – it’s a reminder of what you can achieve by nurturing enduring bonds. As we age, friendships become a lifeline, offering companionship, joy, and a sense of purpose. Reconnecting with old friends or strengthening existing relationships can combat loneliness, uplift your spirit, and bring immense happiness.
Never underestimate the value of these ties. Reach out, spend time together, and make the effort to listen and support one another. Even the thought of having steadfast friends who will stand by you is deeply reassuring – a source of strength in good times and bad.
Pick up the phone. Plan a lunch. Drop a message. Rekindle those connections that matter. Trust me; the joy of having friends who’ve walked life’s journey with you is unparalleled. Just as Si, Kam, and I have enriched each other’s lives, you too can create bonds that last a lifetime.
Here’s to friendship – our greatest treasure in the journey of life!
Main image: (From left) Sim, Kam and Pola.
