No resolution is better than unfulfilled resolution

Having happiness and love are more achievable than many of our resolutions.

No resolution is better than unfulfilled resolution

New Year’s Day is almost here. It’s time again to make resolutions to become a better me. Not!

They say resolutions are made to be broken. I am guilty as charged. Thus the only resolution I’ll make is not to make any resolutions ever again.

Why should I when these are things I can’t or won’t do/complete? Like losing 20kg of my weight, buying that Mercedes, doing the bungee jump, going to Mount Everest base camp, and so on.

It will be a major milestone as I turn 60 in 2019. Each day I wake up is already a huge blessing … an unconditional extension to the short lease on life.

There’s no need for resolutions to try to do things which I cannot achieve. Keeping up with the Joneses, Alis, Ah Chongs, and Muthus is not for me. Not anymore.

If there is anything I hope to achieve, it would be without any physical effort or spending even a sen. It won’t be a commitment which I cannot keep and then renew it every year-end in the form of a resolution.

As such, for 2019 and beyond, I want to be who I am. To be happy. To give and receive love. To keep moving forward and remaining positive no matter what the odds.

To everyone else, here’s a toast to good health, joy and peace always. Happy New Year.