KUALA LUMPUR: Marina Idris and Muslimah Mustain, two independent women, were thrilled to be part of this year’s Merdeka parade. To them, independence means being able to manage everything on their own.
Marina, 45, a single mother and former dancer, became an e-hailing driver after a motorcycle accident in 2016 affected her income.
In the nine years since, she has found flexibility and renewed purpose behind the wheel.
“As a Grab driver-partner, I can manage my time without the pressures of working in an office,” said Marina, who plans her days around work and her children.
Her journey has not been without setbacks. Last year, she took a break from driving for almost a year to care for her child, who suffered serious injuries in an accident that resulted in three toes being amputated.
“That experience reinforced my determination to be there for my family while maintaining my independence,” said Marina, adding that life beyond the driver’s seat remains important as she tries to dance in her free time.
“My work has also taught me patience – whether dealing with traffic congestion or demanding passengers.”
She hopes leading by example will teach her children to be responsible, considerate and careful as they watch her build a life for the family.
Her message to other women is simple: “Do not be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and try something new. Keep working hard for yourself and your family.”
For 41-year-old Muslimah, being an e-hailing driver has similarly given her the freedom to work around her schedule.
A former self-employed worker, Muslimah started part-time in 2025 because she found the work comfortable and flexible.
“I am not too restricted, and I can work according to my schedule,” said Muslimah, who enjoys cooking and going on holidays.
“The job has also helped me become more disciplined in planning my day, while improving my ability to read maps and find alternative routes without relying entirely on GPS.”
Muslimah said taking part in the Merdeka celebrations reminded her of what it means to be Malaysian.
“As women, we are grateful that our country is peaceful, prosperous, harmonious and free from colonial rule,” she said.
“My advice to all women in Malaysia is that being independent does not mean we have to be strong all the time. It means we should not depend entirely on others. A strong woman embraces every challenge.
“You are all amazing women. Always stay strong.”
Both women have different journeys, but their message is much the same: independence is built through resilience, flexibility and the courage to keep moving forward.
Image: Marina (left) and Muslimah say women should not be afraid to step out of their comfort zones and try something new.
